Woman, goddess, vessel of light – you don’t need a relationship to be whole.
As a byproduct of the modern days fast dating world, we are taught that wholeness comes with finding your better half.
Mainstream media teaches us, that as feminine women we need to find a masculine man in order to have a chance to live a fulfilled life. Together, we make one whole person.
Looking at the overly romantic picture of Hollywood, we dedicate most of the younger years of our life’s to finding that missing piece in order to feel complete. Instead of focusing on growth, self-love, and expansion within, you constantly go external longing for the one match that will make us whole instead of focusing on wholeness as something we hold already but learn to suppress.
When we find the so-called „better half“ that gives us what was missing, we unconsciously sacrifice a part of the self. As the feminine woman finds the masculine man, she’ll abandon her inner masculine that holds, sustains, and stabilizes her within because society teaches that all this, after all, is the man’s job in a relationship. She lets go of her greatest opportunity for growth and evolution whilst sitting back and letting herself be taken care of. Codependency on an emotional, financial and existential level happens and, who wonders, a deeper sense of non-completeness settles in.
Surely, the feminine is much more receptive but girls, we live in the 21st century. You’ve got money, you’ve got visions, you’ve got power. Let him take you out, let him seduce you, let him court and protect you, but can you do the same for him? Showing him your desires and maybe, every once in a while, take him on a date. You’ll see him surrender to your feminine guidance led by your inner masculine and witness him tapping more into his emotionality because you’re simply creating the space for him to open up to you.
In order to create a healthy relationship, we absolutely have to….
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